Something that just happened to me
The guy I was seeing slept with another girl while I was in his bed.
In the same house.
And I heard them.
So I packed my bags and left, now I am a wondering stray with no where to go.
The guy I was seeing slept with another girl while I was in his bed.
In the same house.
And I heard them.
So I packed my bags and left, now I am a wondering stray with no where to go.
After an adventurous Summer, the pace has slowed down. Now that I’m living in Chicago, it’s great.
I’ve barely thought about James, and I’m now thinking what I ever saw in him.
I def don’t want any romance now, I’m happier without the stress.
Why can’t you just get over James?
Here are the bad points about James:
1. We don’t like the same music
2. We don’t like the same films
3. We don’t have the same humour
4. I’m not his type – the typical English rose with a manor house.
5. I don’t want loads of kids – he does.
6. He makes me feel stupid
7. He can be a real snob (so can I..)
8. He pulled another girl in front of me brought her back to our flat and doesn’t think he did anything wrong!
9. He’s a bastard.
10. He can be too rough during sex
11. I’m never going to see him again
12. Since Easter he hasn’t pulled anyone else (would help in the getting over him department)
13. The bastard swore off me
14. And didn’t explain why!
15. I clutching at straws to find bad points
16. He makes me feel unpretty when he says all the girls on tv are fit/hot/smoking/sexy etc.
17. He’s chubby (but i like it?)
18. His eyes are too close together (but such a beautiful colour…)
19. He’s not that good looking (but such a good personality…)
20. This is all I can think of. The bastard.
It’s not everyday that a hot chick says they want to meet me, so of course I want to meet her. Hopefully one day when Mother’s out, she can come round and listen to my record collection.
You’re totally right.
How can I be so sure that James doesn’t love his gf anymore, how can I be sure that he won’t do the same to me?
He’s definately broken up. And although he wasn’t over her for a while, i think he is now. This is just my impression. For the first time, he referred to her as the ‘ex’. He never spoke about her before that except to say how he didn’t love her anymore.
I’m worried that Karma will come back when I’m at my most vulnerable. You’re totally right that I shouldn’t teach people to treat me badly. I should have more respect for myself.
2 nights ago, I slept with James for the 4th time. I felt like I was in control. Not like shortly after the first where he totally broke my heart.
I felt slightly impowered that I could control what I wanted from this with the knowledge that it wouldn’t lead to anything further.
But this time it was different, he told me that he’d sworn off me but couldnt resist, then he asked me quietly if i could stay the night with him (as opposed to my usual routine of fuck and go).
Does this mean he’s developing feelings?
We went to the cinema together today, was nice, we went to see spiderman 3. I thought about making a move but the film was mighty distracting! But also, he wasn’t really leaning my side… So i thought against it. I mean, as a guy who’s swore himself off me, I don’t want a sober rejection and have to deal with any awkwardness!
The time before, i actually asked him if he wanted to be “friends with benefits” to which he said yes, but nothing ever came of it, i think we’re both too shy to ever initiate it!
In the morning, as I was about to leave (on wednesday) he pulled me back, and we had sober sex. I think he wanted me to stay… In hindsight, I think I shouldve, but at the time all I wanted was a shower!
I can’t let myself think that he likes me.. I’ll be back in square one, with no control, and too emotional. I’m leaving in less than 3 months, I can’t get emotional again. It’s exam time and I really need to focus on that. He’s already distracted me enough as it is…
I went to a psychic in Toronto a couple of weeks ago who said I would meet the man I am going to marry by the end of the year!
I’ve not met him yet, but he’s tall, dark haired, athletic, and mixed raced (but didnt specify). His name will begin with either a M or an N.
So, I am very much looking forward to meeting this man, we will have two children together, a girl and a boy and we will have a long lasting relationship!
I want to meet you on private can i
so we can see each other clearly dont you think its good to be frends and may be lovers in futuer
im 27 old and i hope you are less than it